Just a little dating advice. When you go out to with your male friends do you stand around and comment on girls? Do you point them out at the bar or club or wherever and talk about how hot they are, or how that one is wearing such and such, or how you’d like to take that one home, etc? Does it ever include actually approaching and opening any of them?
Advancing your game and separating yourself from the pack sometimes requires literally separating yourself from the pack; your own pack. If you’re serious about changing your life to make women you desire a part of it, it probably requires you examine other social relationships. For instance, if you’re the only one in your circle of friends who is proactively executing the steps to approaching and opening girls, your friends are not helping to enable your success. In fact, they are probably acting more as a distraction holding you back or making you feel strange that you’re making attempts and they’re not. A wing man or wing men is great, but they should be like minded and have the same goals as you.
Simply hanging out and talking about girls instead of to them is a bad habit and one that’s harder to break when in a group. Your better off going it alone or finding others who want to accomplish the same as you..